Choosing Happiness - a Column by Janet Favorite

On Sept. 16, 18 adults with Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS) arrived at Camp Knutson, including my adult son, Robert. The camp is located in Crosslake, Minnesota, between Big Trout Lake and Lower Whitefish Lake. Tall pines surround the rolling meadows, and the scent of the trees isn’t easily forgotten. Several…

“Hyperphagia,” or the extreme drive to consume food, is a sizable word that is difficult for me to pronounce. It is a symptom of Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS), which my adult son, Robert, has. In people with PWS, the hypothalamus, a brain structure that regulates several bodily functions, including…

When Robert, my son with Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS), was small, any mention of group homes would cause my stomach to clench in fear. What would the future hold for our darling little boy? Group home living seemed limiting. We hoped our son would at least receive a college…

A mother posted on Facebook recently that she’d let her son with Down syndrome choose between adapted and non-adapted activities in high school; it worked reasonably well, she said. We gave a similar choice to our son, who has Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS), 21 years ago. We all want…

I once wrote an essay called “The House of Questions.” In it, I shared questions my husband asks repeatedly, such as, “If you were me, which way would you drive home?” This might be hard for a spouse who didn’t have my superpower. After all, I raised a son with…

Growing up in St. Paul, Minnesota, I was encircled by families with many children. We had action-packed fun and played games during summer vacation and after school. Our children, however, grew up differently. Early on, their neighborhood had no children, just older adults. Fortunately, my sister’s family moved next to…

The spiritual study program “A Course in Miracles” has interested me for years. Among other things, it encourages people to recognize the miracles in everyday situations. I’ve had some experience with such miracles. Thanks to new genetic testing methods, Prader-Willi syndrome can now be diagnosed right…

Scoliosis is common among people with Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS). I am active in the PWS community and have seen multiple people with the syndrome whose bodies were severely compromised by scoliosis, or an abnormal curvature of the spine. In my experience, older people with PWS and scoliosis often…

While I was shopping with my grandson, he spotted a ball in the next aisle. Since we’d experienced incidents of balls thrown at other shoppers, I didn’t want a repeat. “No ball!” I said. That provoked a tantrum. Throwing himself on the floor, my grandson began to scream and cry.

I’m a woman of a certain age, and self-care was never mentioned in my younger years. Today, thankfully, there’s considerably more information about this important concept, and we women should take note. After all, we typically have two jobs: working outside the home and handling the bulk of a home’s…