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Over the last few months, my husband, Jamie, and I have been preparing for our 1-year-old son, Ellis, to undergo surgery. Experts have found that cryptorchidism, or the absence of at least one testicle from the scrotum, occurs in 86% to 100% of boys with Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS).

Splashing around in the pool at a resort in Florida, our 1-year-old son, Ellis, was having the time of his life. He was all giggles as I pretended his infant pool lounger was a speedboat, jetting him through the water and spinning him in circles. “Three … two … one…

We have a nonnegotiable evening routine in our house: get the kids to sleep, spend some time resetting for the next day, then give growth hormone injections before going to bed ourselves. Ninety-nine percent of the time, both of our kiddos — Emerson, 4, and Ellis, 1 — sleep through…

August is a busy month for my family. Both of my kids have birthdays this month, one day apart. My daughter, Emerson, is turning 4, and my son, Ellis, will be 1. This year, we’re celebrating them together with a Neverland-themed party. Birthdays and holidays are like my Super Bowl,…

The morning started like any other. We woke up to our 3-year-old daughter, Emerson, bouncing on the bed, body-slamming us, and laughing, while our 11-month-old son, Ellis, was in his bassinet, babbling and smacking his aquarium toy until it turned on. Time to start the day. I tried to sneak…

There is a word that has governed our family for 16 years: structure. With a child diagnosed with Prader-Willi syndrome, that is something we strive for — set mealtimes, routines, a scaffolding that keeps my son Jake’s world legible and his anxiety at bay. So when we left home…

My husband, Jamie, and I have developed a constantly evolving system to plan for the week ahead. Standing in the kitchen with multiple calendars open, we map out the week’s schedules and logistics. We do a pretty good job. Bonus points if we can coordinate appointments around the same time…