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On Jan. 1, our 15-year-old son, Jake, walked off a plane from Los Angeles, having traveled entirely on his own for the first time. As he came through the gate with his backpack and a beaming smile, a wave of emotion washed over me — pride, relief, joy, and most…

The holidays can add an extra layer of stress to life with Prader-Willi syndrome. Routines and consistency are important, as they can help to reduce anxiety and prevent meltdowns. But during the holidays, routines change, and many of us gather with friends and relatives. The children or young adults…

Few things scare a parent more than the possibility of their child becoming mentally ill. If there is a history of mental illness in the family, an observant parent will be worried and watchful for signs. When our son, Robert, was born with Prader-Willi syndrome 35 years ago, we…

The Christmas season has always been my favorite time of year. I treasure memories of going to the homes of my grandparents and great-grandparents, large family gatherings, the big “box bash” on Christmas Eve, the smell of freshly baked treats, and anticipating the day I could move up to the…

It has been 37 years since our son, Robert, was born with Prader-Willi syndrome. During his time in the neonatal intensive care unit, my husband, Carey, was a devoted father. He organized care for our 6-year-old daughter, visited the hospital regularly, and supported me following a difficult birth. It…

On Sept. 16, 18 adults with Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS) arrived at Camp Knutson, including my adult son, Robert. The camp is located in Crosslake, Minnesota, between Big Trout Lake and Lower Whitefish Lake. Tall pines surround the rolling meadows, and the scent of the trees isn’t easily forgotten. Several…

If you’d told me 15 years ago, when my son was diagnosed with Prader-Willi syndrome, that I’d one day be fluent in complex medical terminology, juggle multiple therapy schedules, and still find ways to laugh, I probably would’ve raised an eyebrow and reached for another cup of coffee. But…

The past two weeks could be described as a master class in emotional whiplash — a wild ride that would leave even the most stoic parent reaching for the breath mints and tissues. Last month, I wrote about riding the emotional roller coaster of Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS), and…

“Hyperphagia,” or the extreme drive to consume food, is a sizable word that is difficult for me to pronounce. It is a symptom of Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS), which my adult son, Robert, has. In people with PWS, the hypothalamus, a brain structure that regulates several bodily functions, including…

When Robert, my son with Prader-Willi syndrome (PWS), was small, any mention of group homes would cause my stomach to clench in fear. What would the future hold for our darling little boy? Group home living seemed limiting. We hoped our son would at least receive a college…